Why I Write: A Reflection
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My 50th Hub
Having reached my 49th Hub and completing the 30/30 Hubchallenge, I thought about maybe taking a week off or so, basking in the satisfaction of a job well done and just laying myself off on writing more Hubs. But then I wanted to do something special. I wanted to celebrate somehow, so after some thought, I came up with this idea: I wanted my 50th Hub to be somewhat special and a reflection of my time here at Hubpages so far.
For those of you who know me, you know that I like to write. When writing my fictional pieces, I take pleasure in creating my characters, dressing them up a little, maybe give them a splash of Old Spice or Chanel and then shove them into the jaws of unmerciful hell. Funny, sometimes I feel like I’m a character in some writer’s novel that is still in the works! I like that I can make them say or do anything I please. I can make them have credit card bills, student loans, a living-beyond-their-means-mortgage payment…I can make them delinquent on their bills. I can make it so that my character has no real issues with his hunky-dory life and fly off to Bora Bora on the wings of a Gulfstream G550 with some gorgeous dame he just met at a cocktail party, just by pressing down on a few keys: It’s that easy—clickity click—only to have that same jet crash land on a desert island (and like always, the pilot, cute stewardess and any other minor character dies). Out of desperation, both guy and gal would then have to decide on whether or not they want to be eaten by the other or have it the other way around—I’m just that devious in that manner! This is one of the reasons why I love to write: I get the opportunity to create.
After losing my job of three years unceremoniously back in early 2008, I was faced with a huge challenge. While working, I put every fiber of my being into my job in middle-management, oftentimes working seventy-plus hours a week. I’d won some of my company’s most prestigious awards and for a time, was its most consistent regional sales leader having reached the top echelon an unheard of 34 consecutive months. When I was let go, I didn’t know what to do myself. “This isn’t in the script,” I said to myself. “I didn’t plan this.” But something happened from then on. I went back to writing my novel after having put it off for three full years. I had a bit of money left that I’d saved from the job and so made up my mind to finish up what I started so many years prior.
Writing My First Novel
For the next six weeks, I was a writing machine. Just like during the time right after college graduation (I majored in Creative Writing by the way) I jumped back into novel-writing mode again. I’d wake up pretty late—about nine in the morning (rather than five-thirty like I used to) put on a pot of coffee and turn on my computer while sitting in my swivel chair while clearing my mind. For the next two-and-a-half to three hours, I’d write. During that span, I didn’t pick up the phone or do much of anything else, besides sip on my coffee and go out for the occasional cigarette (yeah, yeah, I know). During which time, I did not stop until I had at least 500 words. Often times than not, I’d crank out much more, like 2,000 words if I was really “feeling it,” one might say.
After doing this for about an hour and a half to two hours, I’d spend perhaps another half hour or so doing some quick editing of the previous day’s work. I did this everyday without missing a single day for the next six weeks, during which time I cranked out a total of 40,000 words. At the end of six weeks, I had a total of 113,000 words which equates to 452 double-spaced pages (I still have a lot of editing to do). I finished my first novel on March 6, 2008. Not ever before in my life had I been more proud of myself than when I completed my novel currently titled, “Yellow House.” I’d accomplished exactly what I had set out to do back in the fall semester of 2000, which was to finish a novel.
I was in awe that I had finished my novel ahead of schedule, as I really thought that it would take me at least two full months or so to complete (since restarting it). I made great strides to finish and knew that nothing would stop me from reaching my goal. When I first started, my third rewrite of my novel back on March 1st of 2001, I already knew how my autobiographical novel would end; I just didn’t know how it would begin.
Writing the first 50 or so pages was very difficult, as I had to revise and rewrite it several times before I was satisfied with the product. If you have not read, “If I Had Wings,” please do, as it is the precursor to my first novel that inspired me to continue on my journey to fulfilling my dream. My family and I came to the United States in 1980. For almost a year prior to doing so, we spent 11 months at a Thai refugee camp to escape Communist persecution in our native Laos. To me, writing my novel about my family’s experience was not only the greatest undertaking I’ve ever endured; it was the most important. I am currently working on another novel titled, “I, Fraternity” and a novella that I plan to finish by the end of October. Since completing my first novel, I find writing other novels to be easier now, especially when tapping into my stream of consciousness.
I've also written a hub to help those seeking to Write a Novel and Find the Voice Within. I hope to see you there!
Things Do Happen For a Reason
Out of five children in my family, I am the youngest and was the first to attend college. My family and I risked our lives to come to the States, having traveled 10,000 miles to freedom. I challenge anyone to tell me that we did so in vain, as I love this country and will never forget where we might be presently had we not come here so many years before. We left behind so many of loved ones, our kin whom we’ve known all our lives and left our home under the cover of darkness without telling any of them beforehand of our plight, so as to not compromise their safety nor our own. Our plan to leave Laos was the most difficult decision my father ever made on behalf of our family. I believe wholeheartedly that I owe my life to my mother and father and writing our family’s novel is the best way I know how to honor them and cherish a memory that seems today an impossible dream.
I was devastated when I lost my job and so were my parents. It was in fact the first “real job” I got since graduating from college. I felt that I shamed them and felt ashamed for failing at my career. Looking back now, I don’t regret it, not one bit because it was the best thing my company ever did for me, as they inadvertently provided me the opportunity to finish my novel and for that I thank them.
Why I Write
Since the age of fourteen, I’ve been keeping a journal. For long stretches of time, I’ve written everything that came to mind. I found solace in my journal writing. Whatever it was that was bothering me—whether in my heart or my mind—writing drew out the poison that was trying to consume me. Writing was a passion to me then and is still a passion to me now. Writing is a release and with each writing session, I always feel better than when first I began. Writing is my freedom, my right, my life…I once heard this line and I do apologize if it belongs to you and was not given your due:
“Sticks and stones will break bones, but words will break a heart.”
This line certainly struck a chord in me. I learned at an early age that words are powerful and have an unlimited potential to either harm or heal a person—that they can be soothing or damaging to the right or wrong person, that they can be descriptive and convey emotions…I wanted to harness that same power. I wanted to tell a story or two and share it with everyone willing to listen while being as honest as I could—I wanted to do this for a living for as long as I’m alive. I’ve heard that only the top two percent of all the writers in the world actually make enough to earn a living and that pursuing such a mode of living is futile. Apparently, I don’t care as I’m going to give this “writing thing” a shot.
“What do you want to do?” My college advisor asked me, at the end of my sophomore year in college. I had yet to declare a major and had to settle on one, per the Registrar’s Office. After thinking about it for a time and shifting in my seat while looking all around her office, the thought suddenly struck me:
“I want to change the world,” I told her. I’ve certainly found my niche.
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On Laos
- Alexandra Bounxouei: The Lao Princess of Pop
Courtesy AlexandraBounxouei.com Chances are, unless you are Lao (like me) or Bulgarian, you've never heard of Alexandra Bounxouei (pronounced boon-soo). As her title indicates, Alexandra or Sandra for short,... - Khene: The Mouth Organ of Laos
One Lao poem has stated that: - Visit Luang Prabang Laos
Wat Haw Pha Bang in Luang Prabang Laos Steeped in history and tradition, Luang Prabang is Laos' Crown Jewel. Inducted into the United Nations Educational, Scientific, Cultural Organization (UNESCO) in 1995... - Lao Folktales : The Crescent Moon Comb
Author's Note: A word about mia noi or minor wives For married men to have minor wives is a common practice in both Thai and Lao societies. A minor wife is a mistress in which a married man will have in... - Lao Folktales : The Magic White Swan
Once there was a lonely farmer who decided to go fishing one day. He wore a shawl around his head to save from being bitten by mosquitoes and other bugs and carried a long fishing net. When he reached... - Lao Folktales : The Mango Tree
A real mango tree! There once a beautiful mango tree that grew in the jungle near a village. Each and every year when its fruit was in season, the children from the village would run into the jungle...
My Collection of Short Stories
- See You in the Bahamas: A Short Story
Victor sits across from me at their dining room table wearing his linen napkin as bib. A few times, I sat on that same chair. Between us is a carved pork roast atop a wood slab accompanied by very large... - Escape: A True Story
Escape By Khamfone Paditsone Tr. Ounheuane Dohn Paditsone Author's Note: To eliminate some confusion, my father is narrating this story not me In the summer of 1945 during the end of the World War II,... - If I Had Wings: A Short Story
My family and I came to America right after Jimmy Carter left office. My first American memory arrived at John F. Kennedy airport, where we landed. It was cold in America, I remembered that very... - The Absence of Aurora: A Short Story
It was in that year that he left Aurora. Before he did, he envisioned another life. He believed this to be the best move. With her voice still fresh in his mind, he had heard her whisper on occasion to... - For the Love of Buddhism: A Short Story
Thinking back, I can still see her now. She’s imperfect but clear in my mind. She’s as clear as the crystal orb that my clouded mind endeavored to envision back then when trying so desperately... - First Crush: Reba Ashkar: A Short Story
It’s five-thirty on a Friday night in late June at the Westchester Yacht Club and everyone in Dohn’s graduating class is already there. Dinner will be served at precisely six. Outside, at the bottom of... - Nancy : A Short Story
It was a voice he’d heard long before calling his name that he faintly heard while working. Customers frequented the grocery store he worked en masse—so much that he grew accustomed to filtering out the...
I, Fraternity: A Novel In Progress
- I, Fraternity: A Novel in Progress: Chapter1
Author's Note: The following excerpt for my novel is entirely fictional. Any like occurrence to similar or actual events in purely coincidental as the people, places and objects in this story were... - I, Fraternity: A Novel In Progress: Chapter2
I remember surveying the field of several fraternities and groups in which to play flag football for. Before joining the Etas, I wasn’t looking for Brotherhood, at least not consciously. I wanted only to... - I, Fraternity: A Novel In Progress: Chapter3
At the first Eta Rush, was a banner advertising you to Rush Eta Iota Mu. Some refreshments covered one long table. One half was cold appetizers like a cheese and fruit platter and chips and on the other... - I, Fraternity: A Novel In Progress: Chapter5
As Mattie and I stood on the porch drinking, about another dozen Rushees began making their way towards the house. I recognized some of them from the three other rushes but was never... - I, Fraternity: A Novel In Progress: Chapter6
“Because if you think pledging is tough now, wait until tonight when your new pledge program begins. It’s going to make the last seven weeks seem like a walk on the beach. You better believe that I’m... - I, Fraternity: A Novel In Progress: Chapter4
Eric wasn’t the only Eta that ignored me. I saw Ian a few times on campus either leaving or entering the Student Association building, saw Justin at the food court at Taco Bell, John in the library, George...
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Very touch. Very inspiring. Very educative. Life is full of ups and downs. I wish you the best. Put your trust in God, He will neither leave you nor forsake you.
Wow, loved reading this, I can’t wait to read some of your stories. Thanks for sharing them too! I've always wanted to write but never get further than the second chapter! Congratulations on having 50 hubs!
Congrats on completing your 50th Hub.I truly respect your passion and desire for writing.There is no doubt that you have a gift and your 50th hub giving me a feeling that you are gonna make the best use of your talent.
First of all, congrats on completing the 30 hubs in 30 days challenge. Second, congrats on your 50th hub! Third of all, congrats on hitting the 100 score. I'm congratulating you well ahead of the others. It's only a matter of time before you hit the big 100!
You are wonderful writer! I hope, I get to read your novel someday (the one on your family). I hope you don't get this the wrong way but I was just wondering if that novel could be a movie someday if the opportunity came. It sounds like it could be good story to make a movie. Anyways, best of luck and congratulations on your 50th hub!
Thanks for sharing! Are you going to be published?
This is lovely Dohn - its always nice to take a step back once in a while and reflect. If you hadn't done that, well, I'd never know you had written a book - which I will check out and a Hub encouraging others to write novels - again which I will be checking out.
Well done on completing the challenge, hope you see the rewards of all that burning oil at midnight. :)
Dohn, beautiful, truly, I felt what you wrote. You will see many good things come your way, just wait and see :)
Wow. You are an excellent writer. And writing is such a powerful, personal thing, and I'm glad it has helped you through your difficult times. I hope you get "Yellow House" published, because I want to read it! I must say congratulations! I can't even imagine what it will be like to post my 50th hub! And I agree with Ladybird33 - good things will come to you.
What a lovely idea for a 50th hub Dohn - and so well expressed too! Here's to golden days ahead for the books you've written and the ones to come!
Dohn, I think you chose the perfect topic to make your 50th hub special. Congratulations!
You tell a wonderful story, Dohn. The company that let you go did us a favour, as well. We would probably not know of your talent, if that had not happened. Re your parents, they must be incredibly proud of you.
I'm eager to read your other works that you've linked to here and I believe you have a bright writing future.
Though I've just known you, I really think you are a good writer. You inspire me, really.. keep it up, bro..
I really like your style. I will be following your hubs. Thanks for being so candid here.
Weel, congrats on your 50th hub? You've done great in many ways dear dohn121, keep the good work.
I can certainly relate with being a character in your own novel. But mine is more like a screenplay, and i've got the crew under my command, the set designer, the dop, key grips, and all doing my every bidding. I'm a madman! You've got soul, man. I keep saying, its easy to see you doing great things. Congrats, man. You're da boss!
Excellent piece. Writing can be so many different things to so many people it is always good to get the perspective of others and what it is for them.
I look forward to more of your work beyond 50.
Journal writing is truly therapeutic, and a great tool for any writer to fall back on.
Dohn, There is no compliment I can add that has not yet been stated. You deserve every one of them. This hub is truly wonderful; I am thankful to have had the opportunity to have read it. It is an inspiration to hear of a writer who is accomplishing his goals. I am going to read your hub "How to Write a Novel and Find the Voice Within" next :)
Can't wait to see your 51st hub!
Now I understand even more I am also trying to finish my book and there have being times that I cannot think clearly but I do manage to write no matter how complicated it appears to be. You have inspired me even more to push myself to my limits so that I can accomplish my goal. :)
Outstanding hub, dohn. Words truly are powerful. I wish great success for you with getting your novel published. What a wonderful tribute to your family.
wow, Dohn, good work on reaching your 50th hub - You're right, words are very powerful and you know just how to wield them with precision and grace. FAR OUT!
Thank you for sharing that wonderful hub with us. What an interesting (although hard) life you have had. I so look forward to reading your novel! I admire your discipline too. Now I am going to read some of your other hubs.
You are a really good writer. Thank you for posting this hub. It meant a lot to me, and I know I'll be reading more of your work. I wish you all the best. You certainly deserve to get published. I'm glad you're here, in America, with us. It is a blessing to us.
look forward to reading more of your stories..i see you are collecting info from the forum for your next work lol.
Thank you for telling it like it is and not pretending. Thank you also for the inspiring tale about your novel. Rather than self publish, I found that lulu.com is better: it actually prints off the book for you for a few pounds. It shows you how to publicise too and that is useful. If the novel has legs, it will travel!
Hi dohn121 ,Greetings. I salute you on your 50th hub.This is the first time I am reading any hub of yours and frankly, I am quite touched by the line of thinking there...Thanks a lot for being around..have a nice day..bye
It does but you better be quick....I might get there before you.
Thanks for sharing. This has made an excellent 50th hub! I have a ways to go to get there, but this is very inspiring.
I admire the courage your parents demostrated by leaving the homes and lifes in search of their dreams.
Best of luck on publishing your novel. You are a great writer.
Congratulations on your 50th Hub, truely inspiring and something i've got to strive to (I've got a long way to go though)
Congrats Dohn!
On achieving the 50 hubs mark!
You got a creative-writing degree? Now I know why you write so well. lol!
Picture used above is really good for this hub.
I'm deeply touched. your command over words shows how easily writing comes to you...not just that, what is most commendable is the discipline with which you pusue your talent. It takes ages for people to get the inspiration going. i too would like to say, you inspire me. thanks for sharing.
Dohn, you rock! as always. Loved this hub, am looking forward to reading more from you. Your an inspiration to those of us who struggle with the passion of writing. Thanks.
thanks for the article. you are inspiring me to do the challenge....i'm new, but am really enjoying this writing outlet
What an inspiring story of turning one of life's blows into the perfect opportunity. Way to go.
That was great stuff my friend. After my last two hubs about writing I decided to write my own book finally after putting it off for 10 years. it's been better then therapy. the words just flow out of me.I'm looking forward to my career in writing. See you there on top.
go change the world and don't forget to let me know when it is changed..... we will have to get back to lessons, i am back on line again did you notice
you are coming to the wine party aren't you .... getting drunk as i recall
Congrats and thanks for sharing so eloquently!
Love and peace
Tony
congrats on completing the 30/30 challenge. great motivating hub by the way.
Hello, dohn121.
Thank you for sharing your story. Well, I'm new here at HubPages and that little time I have observed his dedication and desire what is working or writing.
Congratulations!
Hi Dohn! What a great hub! Congrats on completing the challenge and this being your 50th hub! I've been incredibly busy lately and haven't had a chance to read as much as I'd like. So, here it is almost 3 a.m., can't sleep, and decided to try to catch up. This is twice now in less than 12 hours that I've been reminded that I need to finish my book. Thanks for being that extra nudge. Don't forget me when passing out those autographed copies! LOL
Congrats on completing the 30/30 Challenge! I admit that I attempted it, but about 14 days in, I got pooped.
Writing is one of my favorite forms of reflection and expression, whether the story is fiction or non-fiction. I can see that you have a wonderfully creative mind (seeing Bora Bora and Old Spice in the same paragraph... great descriptions and character development!). Keep writing!
dohn
I'm glad to know that you have managed to keep everything in perspective - moving forward despite the bumps. Anyway, I think congratulations are in order and here's hoping that you will never run out of reasons to write. :D
Thank you for sharing this inspiring hub. I completed my first novel a few years ago, and rewrote the entire thing from scratch this year. I think writers are a special breed; we *have* to do it, just like any other artist has to do his or her craft. That said, I very much enjoyed reading this reflection and learning more about you and your family. I know that everything you've gone through will only continue to inspire more stories from you -- and I look forward to reading more of your work.
My dear friend Dohn121,
I enjoyed this hub very much, it was a pleasure to read. What a truly awesome idea too. A congrats on your hubchallenge. :)
Thank you for your MIA post on the forums, I wasn't sure if anyone would notice I was gone. ((hugs)) You are a awesome writer yourself dear. I saw my lovely Shirley let you know what happened... however, if you'd like I'd love to still keep in touch as you are one of my best friends on here. ;)
Once again congrats dear. ^-^ -Cammi
Congratulations! let me check now your previous hubs.
Hey Dohn, oh dear I am so sorry I hadn't come around to you yet I've been swamped since this happened! Yes, Shirley is wonderful, how neat. :)
I understand what you mean about the content, I always... umm tried to do the same, what's the point of writing if you aren't giving quality. ^_^
Ok, I can't wait to hear! HP hasn't let any activity go though my account.. (do you have my email?) If not ask Shirley, she has it. :) Thanks dear, have a wonderful day.. you've made mine a great day now.
Have an awesome day, -Cammi ^-^
Thank you for your constant comments on my writing. I've actually tried to stop writing and can't seem to. It's like breathing. I have a love/ hate relationship with my writing. I found this reflection to be one of inspiration. I was forced out of work by my injury and have yet to find my place in this world.
Great stuff
Lovely, Dohn! You know, we are "batchmates" here in HP but I certainly look up to you. :) Congrats on the 30/30 Challenge and woot! to your 50th hub.
"Things happen for a reason" - am with you on that one. :) And more often than not, that reason is the best for you. God bless!
keep it up, its a great idea who want to trite their novel skill and also can earn money.
Well Dohn, this hub is like good ol' Maple Syrup on my waffle. ;p Now I know why I was impressed with you when first we 'met'. Congratulations on your 50th and many more to come I hope. America is so much better with the likes of your presence on her shore. I do wish you the best of good fortune in your bright future and your parents are no doubt very proud of you. Thanks for sharing your life. peace, CC
Thanks for sharing your writing experience.
Learned alot from your hubs
*smiling*
Dohn, keep writing! You have a talent, my friend!
dohn121 your past seems to have pushed you to a great future. Without your experience you may not have had an exceptional story to tell. I love your outstanding writing skills. Those skills combined with your biography will cause you to reach out to billions. I have found out myself that being fired actually gives us an opportunity to expand and fulfill our dreams. I wish you great success.
This hub is inspiring for me.
I find myself compelled to write humor, I just need to work on it.
Thanks for sharing your insight. I look forward to reading your short stories!
You are very inspirational! I wish I could devote a chunk of time to writing. It's my dream.
Great stuff!
I love reading your words.
Thank you.
thank you! I used to write a whole lot, but stopped for a while. I'm kind of "getting in shape" so to speak.
It's always wonderful to know the thoughts of fellow writers. I've enjoyed reading this. :) Congratulations to your 50th hub! :)
Great hub!
Well written hubs..quite an inspiration..cheers to many more!
This is so inspiring!!! Look forward to reading more of your articles!!
Great article. Can't wait to see more.
Great! You never know. Time is changing.
Nowadays there are a lot of resources available. Recently I heard about a writer who was able to do it.
It's always great to hear the story of someone else that started writing at a very young age, and never stopped. For some it's a career, for some it's a hobby, and for a few of us, it's a lifestyle.
Beautiful story Dohn! You truly are a gifted and prolific writer.
Thank you for sharing!
WOW so amazing!!! I really would love to be able to write. I am actually working on my own novel . You are very inspirational!
Dohn. What a special piece. Congrats. I am new to Hubbing and don't really know what to do but you have encouraged me. thank you.
Man that was inspiring. I love to write and to create. I had never really put it into those words before. I hope and wish for you to find the success that you deserve. This is truly an inspiring piece of work.
naturally people here are fascinated by your ability and talent to write long fictional pieces myself included will read one of your pieces as soon as I can...
This is another great hub. I love to write as well. I feel better after I write. It is like I have ideas in my mind and they will not go away until I type them. Once I get started, the words just jump to the screen through the keyboard. I think writing gives me serenity.
I also can relate to how you felt when you lost your job. I was back in college when I started having those panic attacks last year. I had a 4.0 GPA, and was trying so hard to accomplish my goals. However, my brain went into "shut down" mode. I could not even drive for awhile. I thought to myself, "I am still so young and I will not give up!" I fought the anxiety and have won that ballte. I must say, writing helped me the most to get through it.
I'm sorry to just ramble on and on. I think this is another wonderful hub from you.
Thank you for sharing your talent:)
What a wonderful reflection and I am certainly looking forward to the book. You have came a long way and still have so much more to accomplish. :)
I just found this-- and haven't read the multitude of comments. Your goal of changing the world is a noble one, and I believe you were born to be a writer.
Your father had uncommon courage and faith to leave as he did, knowing life would never be the same and there would be some losses to bear. You have an awesome heritage.
I too like to write reflections. They help me to analyze my skills and reflect on what I would like to repeat and what I would like to alter. It has made me a more effective teacher. Thank you for the great hub!
I write reflections too.. they help me release my inner self.. my imagination and creativity..
Great writing prowess shown in this hub and shows a lot of heart to being a Filipino we're brothers for you're from Laos, it's a rarity to Laotian in HP, man, you represent your country well... at first you were a Filipino but i was wrong...
I'm also the youngest in the family...
Dohn121 keep sharing your great ideas for the world to see...
hello Dohn...nice hub. what i liked the most is the clarity of words and thought. after reading you, i am all ready to go for the books you recommend. thanks for sharing.
hi, congratulations to your 50th hub. i know this is kinda late but i just wanted to give you the thumbs up for a job well done. it is my first time here, but this hub touched me as i like hubs that have personal touch in it.
I'd like to change the world, too, it's a tough one.
Can't believe you wrote that many hubs in just 2 months of joining HP?! What a trooper! You are such a true inspiration. I'm glad to hear someone pouring their heart and soul out in to writing even when it feels like the end of the World. Continue to make your parents proud and do what you do best.
God Bless
Awesome! Clearly you have an affinity towards words. I too am trying my best to change the world. I always get fed up with the way mankind treats one another. But then I just write something down and before I know it I have written an entire story. I'm also working on my own fictional novel and auto-biographical novel. Sometimes it does take me a while to get inspired.
Congrats on your writing accomplishments!
Keep on keepin' on! :-)
I figured I would start backwards and read this hub first. Probably the best decision I made today (right above that that amazing chicken quesadilla I had for lunch). Your opportunity to create has given all of us the opportunity to appreciate.
This is an awesome hub. I enjoyed it very much. So the job loss turned to be a blessing? God can turn all things for the good. Trusting in stocks,K, institutions will surely fail us. There are no guarantees. Your hub blessed me with awesome tips. I am heading over to your hub. I plan on reading your novels. Your words flow like fresh, living, clear, running water. I am sure your novels are awesome.
I have a dream and vision. I am writing a daily reflection book. I had no idea where my writing was taking me and I got more clarity as time went on. I to have a passion for writing. I put it on the back burner for a long time. Children family, life. My career has slowed so I had an open window to write. My husband lost his job 4 weeks ago so I am trusting the Lord to provide. He is my provision..
I am into blessing and inspiring others that is my mission.
May God continue to bless you richly.
I know you have touched many hearts. Way to go dohn 121.
I have joined the fans. I will return soon. Thank You Please check out a hub when you have a moment. Joy,Butterfly or News flash.
I 'just' happened to land on your hub page tonight. I do not think that was a mistake.
i cannot remember a time when the desire to put pen to paper was not with me,there has been times when the trails and tribulations of life have distracted me but i always seem to come back.
I've stumble upon your page and you really inspired me. I would love to find that disciple you have for writing, and your passion is unmistakable
congrt for 50th hub kep wrting more good luck to you
Amazing, I would have never guessed you've been through all those trials in life man, at first glance,and congrats on your 50th hub as well,just reading this hub inspires me to work harder at my hubs and everything in general!
Thanks for sharing this eye opening experience dohn121!
Thanks for an exceptionally good hub!
Oh my, you have accomplished so much dohn! Congratulations on the 50th hub, on completing the hub challenge and on all these wonderful hubs. I'll probably be reading these hubs after coming back from my vacation.
Dohn - somehow I'd not seen you till now. I wish you all the best in attaining publication, but I also feel that you will be fulfilled by writing your vision until that day arrives. Nice work!
Very interesting and poignant work, you really were able to capture the bare essence in writing published works.
Great hub dohn121 it has really inspired me to finish my book and congratulations on the compleation of your work.
You have many engaging hubs, Dohn, including this one. I know that you will definitely be writing more. You are my inspiration here... thanks a lot for being a friend and making my Hubpages journey quite pleasant, really..
Just wanted to leave another note. Glad I read your interview this evening and have now read some of your hubs. I'll definitely be back to read some of the stories. Thanks.
This is so lovely to read, i share these same feelings about writing i am glad to run into your hub you have got a great thing going:)
Congratulation for your 50 Hubs, it really inspired us that writing is really a power that you can share your experiences with others. Cheers. I am glad I stop and transit in your 50th Hub
hi Dohn, am still busy writing while the NY Giants are playing now, i hope they win as your prize for this article, but wait, the prize should be more than that, you deserve more and more from life DOHN, and you know that. You and your family deserved something big, like what you said, things happen for a reason. I just salute you for the dreams you have for yourself, family and for the world, hmmm, you will change the world DOHN< you have already changed the view of others here in understanding life of an immigrant and your rich story about love, (wonderful stories)!!!
I like reading your hubs because of the feeling you want to share with your reader, you are a very good writer!
I am going to watch football now!
You are a lovely writer Dohn!
Here's a big hug to you and a hope sent through the wired that connects us: may you write many more beautiful tales that please you most of all. And be delighted because in a sunny country way away from Laos or Usa, there is at least one other soul that really likes you.
A friend Nanet!
Wonderful hub. I love your passion, man. I got downsized in January 2009. I had to decide what direction to take - writing/publishing or back to corporate America. Like you, I have chose my passion. Yeah, the odds are against us as far as income goes, but there are options. Here's to you and your commitment to writing - Hurray!!
Hi Dohn,
well what ever the reason for your writing..the thing is your final product is very good..i like ur hubs
just found this again...... i actually did that challenge about the girl in mcdonalds or where ever put never put it uup....... lets start classes again.....
I'll need to go read some of your short stories. Seriously, this is a great hub. Why? Because it tells your story, reasons for writing and is executed well. I kept reading and reading unlike many hubs I just...get a little bored. :)
Reading your stuff is a breathe of fresh air because you write WELL, and it flows WELL. It's consistent and engaging. Great hub. :)
Things do happen for a reason Dohn and we should all thank your company for the blessing of letting you go; this way you came to us and to the world to do much more than working a "regular job"
Your only JOB is to tell the story of your family
Hi Dohn! I feel the soul when i read this. thanks for writing! I've always been 'thinking' that i'm gonna be a writer. I can feel the passion in me, i know i can do it because i'd taken some writing courses when i was in college. I've been writing this and that, in Facebook note, blog, etc, but still i haven't found my style yet..probably since i haven't made any real effort yet. Reading yours here, has given me 'a move' inside that i gotta try to start it not think about it! :p
BTW, some friends of mine said that they like reading my writing and suggested me to write seriously..one of them who is a pro writer said that i have 'eyes' to see things and put it onto words. Also, they said that mine is very descriptive. And i do think that mine tend to be rely on description other than too much dialog. I don't know if you get what i mean, but my point is.. to me it's all about action.
I am going to read yours tittled 'If I had wings' now as i'm having my snack on this really nice weather spring day! :D
Please keep writing!
Hi Dohn, thanks for sharing your purpose for writing. Beautiful piece here. For someone who has majored in creative writing, it seemed to me that God was really bringing you back to your first love even though you were doing a great job already in sales. They say sometimes the enemy of the best is the good. I want to learn from your desire and determination to just write,write and write. I was also let go from my job of 10 years last 2008 so I can relate with you. I have not applied for another employment since then but rather went on freelance as a designer hoping to go build my own entrepreneurial venture in the future. It is a slow progress and very challenging. I wish I could just design, design, design. Design stuff that can make peoples lives more pleasant and more inspired. But I am still at the transition stage even now. I think that's why life is called a journey. You should never feel you have arrived. So I can't say if I am still at a transition stage or already embarking on the road to my destination. Or maybe I need to make a necessary detour? :-) All the best wishes to your writing. We, your readers, are inspired that you gave us the privilege to share your life and works. Hope to see you published in the very near future :-)I still have to read your fiction and other gems here at hubpages.
Ever since I have arrrived at the HubPages I have been on a trip.It seems that when I read your profile it is so incredible of what you have seen and done.You are the type of writer who I long for.You tell it like it is with endless charm and style.I also have been writing just about everything since a very young age.You writings push me to do more than I know I could.Congratulations on all your achievements.How is the book industry treating you?You write so well you caused me to do something I haven't done.I have always come to different hubs and read them and sometimes reread them then I read the feedback and see how and what others felt.Keeping my own feelings seperate.When I reached this hub and read it I was estatic with your progress and your triumphs!!Now I started reading your comments and there are so many.I had to break the rules.I stopped short of reading every comment for now just so I can leave a comment.You push all my buttons to go deeper in my self.Thanx the most for your wonderful spirit and drive.Have a gorgeous day.



























































































Peter Dickinson Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago
Thank you for sharing. I will read more, I will read more, right now though it is I MUST write more.
Just about every week I read of the plight of Lao refugees in Thailand. Forced or threatened to go back. Losing medical back up. The list goes on.